12.31.2011

Christmas 2011

*This was written in December 2013 and back-dated to it's appropriate place on my blog, December 2011*

The past few months have been busy. And my focus has been on other things besides my blog. New baby. Thanksgiving. Christmas (2013!). But lately I've had "an itch" to better document the happenings in our lives. You'll hopefully continue to see more frequent posts from me. Before I can get to current stuff, I will be finishing old drafts that were left in limbo! Like Christmas...2011. Hah.


We spent Christmas Eve eve celebrating at my Mom's. I had to work on Christmas Eve night so Christmas Day was pretty laid back at home, just the two of us.

Watercolor I had framed for Perry
A few days after Christmas, my Dad & Karlene came from Virginia and Jason & Kelley drove from South Carolina so we all could spend the evening together! I'm thankful that our house is in middle because at 36 weeks pregnant, I wasn't up for traveling. My Dad treated us all to dinner at a very nice Czech restaurant he and Kar had been wanting to try called Klara's (at the time, it was in downtown Cary but is no longer there). I do remember that Perry ordered the Pork Schnitzel {funny name for basically a fried pork chop} and loved it.


We exchanged Christmas gifts and rang in the new year on New Years Eve at Mom & Dad Whitaker's. 2012 was the year that our baby would be born!






12.24.2011

36 Weeks

How far along: 36 weeks (December 22, 2011... less than 30 days!)

Size of baby:


Interesting Facts: Your baby is still packing on the pounds — at the rate of about an ounce a day. He now weighs 6 to 6  ½ pounds (like a crenshaw melon^) and is more than 19 inches long. He's shedding most of the downy covering of hair that covered his body as well as the vernix caseosa, the waxy substance that covered and protected his skin during his nine-month amniotic bath. Your baby swallows both of these substances, along with other secretions, resulting in a blackish mixture, called meconium, will form the contents of his first bowel movement.
     At the end of this week, your baby will be considered full-term. (Full-term is 37 to 42 weeks; babies born before 37 weeks are pre-term and those born after 42 are post-term.) Most likely he's in a head-down position.
       Credit: Baby Center & Planning Family

Total Weight Gain: Around 25 pounds.
 
Gender: BOY!!! Gabriel Turner.

Movement: He pokes his little behind up right in the center of my belly and stretches out his long(?!) legs to and sometimes under my right ribs! I can definitely tell a change in his movements as he's running out of room.

Sleep: Good. Getting up multiple times a night to pee and take a few sips of water. Changing positions in bed is getting increasingly difficult, especially when my back is hurting. I use my arms as much as possible, and sometimes even pull my butt over with the back of my pajamas!

Symptoms: Acid reflux; Urinary frequency and urgency; Lots of Braxton-Hicks contractions {Perry & I got excited one night while running around town because I was having SO many contractions, mostly every 5-6 minutes but some closer together & some further apart up to 15 minutes. Then they stopped once I drank & ate dinner}; Numbness and a painful sensation at the top of my big belly- the best way I can describe it is like my skin was burned there- ouch! Maybe this is from the stretching & downward pull on my skin.

Other Notes: You can still see a little "button" on my belly through my clothes, but I think it's flattening out; My nails are getting ridiculously long. I want to get a pedicure {and maybe a mani too!} before I go into labor. First Perry said no one will be looking at my feet, but then made a good point... I will be!;

Cravings: A non-craving I noticed is sweets. We have a house full of donuts and Christmas cookies but I'm rarely in the mood for them. Give me something salty, tangy or spicy!

What we are looking forward to: Meeting our son!!!! Christmas! Ringing in 2012!

Things checked off our "to-do" list:
-Car seat is inspected!
-All the Christmas presents are bought and wrapped. Perry impressed me by coming up with perfect ideas for people this year. He really is a good gift-giver. I can't wait to see what he got for me! Then we had a night of wrapping together: I did the tissue paper & boxed everything and passed it off to him to wrap & tag, then later I put ribbons & bows on- so fun!
-I started painting the trim in the foyer. If I get around to finishing it before Gabe is born, it will be a miracle.
-Perry's hospital bag is packed & in the car! With his persistence, I've gotten a good start on mine.

36 Week Belly Picture:
Christmas Evening (36w3d)

12.17.2011

Merry Christmas From Our {Growing} Family To Yours!!!















I used some of my Pampers points to get 25 free photo cards from Shutterfly! {I knew it would be worth it to start collecting freebie points from couponing blogs, even before we started a family!}

12.14.2011

35 Weeks

How far along: 35 weeks (December 15, 2011)

Size of baby:


Photo Credit: Baby Center
Interesting Facts: Your baby doesn't have much room to maneuver now that he's over 18 inches long and tips the scales at 5 1/4 pounds (pick up a honeydew melon^) up to 6 pounds, depending on the source. Because it's so snug in your womb, he isn't likely to be doing somersaults anymore, but the number of times he kicks should remain about the same. His kidneys are fully developed now, and his liver can process some waste products. Most of his basic physical development is now complete — he'll spend the next few weeks putting on weight.  
       Credit: Baby Center & Planning Family
 
Gender: BOY!!! Gabriel Turner.

Movement: Kicks and stretches out under my right ribs. He gets the hiccups almost daily on the lower left side of my belly. I typically feel them in the late evening/early morning, between 9pm-2am!

Sleep: I've been sleeping well this week, but not feeling well-rested. I worked the past 3 nights in a row and I got a good 8-9 hours of sleep each day but I'm just worn. out!

Symptoms: The new one is heartburn; Stress on my bladder; Lots of Braxton-Hicks contractions; Itchy skin and a little numbness in places on my belly- such a weird feeling!

Cravings: Still ice water.

Best moment this week: Completing our Labor & Birth class at the hospital!! We chose the Weekend Intensive option (all day Saturday & Sunday- with lunch included!) which was a little mentally exhausting, but wham- bam- over and done with! Before I signed up for it I asked new Moms on Facebook and got mixed opinions on the benefits of the class, especially since I am nurse, but Perry & I are so glad we took it. Our class had 9 other couples and was such a fun group! We feel empowered with knowledge that we wouldn't otherwise have- questions to ask my doc, things to know when labor first starts, what to expect before/during/after the birth, our options with regards to different interventions, what Perry can do, and lots more. It also brought up things for Perry & I to discuss so we're totally on the same page on D-day!

What we are looking forward to: Christmas!! New Years! January!!!!!

Things checked off our "to-do" list:
-We picked our pediatrician!!
-Scheduled a tour of the hospital where I will deliver. The only available slot is on January 7th... pushing it mighty close!
-We returned/exchanged the last of the repeat gifts.
-I finished washing & putting away ALL Gabriel's baby clothes, blankets, etc.
-Mailed our Christmas cards & almost finished shopping!
-Perry cleaned out & organized "his" shed.

35 Week Belly Picture: 
I didn't take one!

12.10.2011

My First Baby Shower!

On Sunday, October 30, my Mom hosted my first baby shower at her house in Chapel Hill. We decided to divide up the guest list into 2 to keep the size of the party more intimate, so this one was for my Dad's side of the family, the Durrs, with a separate shower for my friends. Everyone enjoyed all the delicious food, cake & punch made by my Mom, then we played a few games! Thank you so much to all my family who came to celebrate and showered me & baby Gabriel with love!!! Thanks to my mom-in-law Debra for taking all these pictures!

My Momma, the incredible hostess!!! I can't thank her enough!!!
Owl (head) cookies!!! Perfect.

Pumpkin spice cake with cream cheese icing!

What was I doing?
This is not a great picture of me, but LOOK AT ALL THAT FOOD!!!
Documenting all the ladies together <3
Aunt Kathie
Aunt Beth
My cousins Allie
and Caitlin
Aunt Amy and my cousins Clare & Becca
My "stepmom" Karlene
My mother-in-law Debra
My stepdad's mom "Grandma" Jerry
And the next day with all of the gifts unpacked in the nursery!

My Birthday

On the 28th of November, I turned 26. Perry wrote on my Facebook wall at exactly 12:00 midnight {he's good!} and said maybe Gabriel will give me 26 kicks!

I had to work the night before and the night of my birthday, so my celebrating was kept pretty basic. Perry surprised me with a new phone- a BlackBerry! And Chinese takeout & a movie {Water For Elephants!} at home with lots of snuggling on the couch! A few nights later we went to Chili's with Mom & Dad Whitaker, then another night to Mimi's with my Mom & Paul! My Dad, Kar and their dog Rambo called from VA and left me a message of all 3 of them singing "Happy Birthday"! Thank you to everyone who made my birthday special.

This year of my life is going to be the BEST one yet!!!

34 Weeks

How far along: 34 weeks (December 8, 2011)

Size of baby:
Photo Credit: Baby Center

Interesting Facts: Measuring about 17.5 inches long, he now weighs over 5lbs (like your average cantaloupe^)! And from this week, until 2 weeks before birth, he will continue to gain about a half pound of weight every week. Unlike the first trimester, the weight between all babies in the third trimester is much more variable. Some babies weigh more and are taller; some babies weigh less and are shorter. Also unlike the first trimester, by week 34 not much is changing. Your baby continues gaining weight through the development of subcutaneous fat and with that weight, is probably gaining strength in his movements. You may even be startled by a sudden jab to the ribs or be able to see a punch to your belly from the outside!
       Credit: Planning Family
 
Gender: BOY!!! Gabriel Turner.

Movement: Not as many big movements lately- he's starting to get squished! 

What I miss: Moving and changing positions freely & without much thought!

Sleep: Some bad mixed with some good. I'm just thankful I still can get some good sleep!

Symptoms: No change from last week.

Other Notes: It is very annoying when I use the restroom right before leaving my unit at the end of my shift and have to stop to use the bathroom again in the lobby before I walk to the parking deck!!; Still no stretch marks or swelling, but my belly is shiny.

Cravings: Ice & ice water. Coca-cola. And I realized I've been wanting Smithfield's for dinner which I never used to request (BBQ with baked beans & cole slaw!)

Best moment this week: Going out for dinner with Perry's parents one night and my Mom & Paul another night in celebration of my 26th birthday!; strengthening relationships with extended family members; meeting our last prospective pediatrician, then deciding which is the right fit for our family... the very first one!

What we are looking forward to: Our Labor & Birth class at the hospital this weekend!!

Things checked off our "to-do" list:
-Hung wall decor in the nursery!!! Such a good feeling- it looks finished now (except for window treatments... if I do any!). A few frames are blank for (1) a print from Etsy that's coming all the way from New Zealand; (2) pictures of our little man after he's born!
-We ordered... cloth diapers! After much research and drooling over them for months, we bit the bullet and decided on the bumGenius Elemental All-in-Ones. They are a bit expensive, but we think it'll be well worth the investment as they're one-size (7-35 lbs), "no-stuff", organic, super cute, and will save us money over the period of time Gabriel is in diapers (and can be saved for our second child. And third! And fourth?!). We have enough disposable diapers for the first ~2 months at which point we'll start using the cloth. Here's one of the colors, Ribbit, that we chose:
-I lined the dresser drawers and washed & put away most of Gabe's clothes.
-We started packing our hospital bags! Purchased all toiletries in travel sizes (so we aren't chaotically grabbing things out of the shower), set aside extra cell phone chargers, and finalized the list of everything else.

34 Week Belly Pictures:
Coming soon...

12.07.2011

Our Co-Ed Baby Shower!

On November 19, we were given a co-ed baby shower by Perry's parents Debra & Phil! They did a wonderful job putting it together- a big thank you goes to them! It was at their neighborhood clubhouse and incorporated both owls (our nursery "theme") and a Fall theme. It was nice to have so many of our friends & family in one place. Thank you to everyone who came out to be a part of this exciting time in our lives! We appreciate the abundance of blessings we received!!

The morning of the shower, Debra & Phil gave us a gift... personalized hats that say "Gabriel's Mom" and "Gabriel's Dad". So creative!

This one was just too funny not to share!
Perry's cousin, Brad, took pictures for us at the shower! In random order...

After the shower, we took more pictures! All of the "grandparents" were together in 1 place- amazing!!
Parents-to-be!
Perry's Mom & Dad, the wonderful hostess & host!
My Dad & "stepmom"
My Mom & stepdad
ALL of GABE'S GRANDPARENTS!!!
Their baby is having a baby!
And last but not least, my cousin Luke & his girlfriend Laela who hung around after the shower and took the above pictures for us!